Are You Feeling Alone as You Care for an Elder with Cancer?

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Are You Feeling Alone as You Care for an Elder with Cancer?

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Being a family caregiver can be a very challenging role to take. When you are caring for an elderly adult who is suffering from cancer, however, it is even more difficult. As soon as you find out that your aging parent has this condition, you know that the efforts that you have to put forth for them will need to increase and that you will need to give a tremendous amount of energy and effort to help them through this challenging time. While you know how valuable the care and support that you give your parent will be as they fight this disease in the way that is right for them, it can leave you feeling alone.

Elder Care Rancho Palos Verdes CA - Are You Feeling Alone as You Care for an Elder with Cancer?

Elder Care Rancho Palos Verdes CA – Are You Feeling Alone as You Care for an Elder with Cancer?

You may feel as though you are the only person who could understand what you are going through as a caregiver, or that by committing yourself to this role you are putting yourself in a position where no one can support and help you. This, however, is not the case, and helping yourself to understand and embrace that is essential to getting the support you need, protecting your own mental and emotional health, and ensuring that you are not only the best possible caregiver you can be, but also that you do not forget to take care of yourself while caring for your parent.

Some ways to help you feel less alone in this journey include:

• Rely on your partner. Allow them to be a source of support, encouragement, love, and escape to keep you feeling anchored and reassured throughout this experience.

• Don’t be afraid to talk about it. It’s easy to feel as though no one wants to hear about what you are going through or that if you talk about the struggles that you are facing you will just be “whining” or complaining. This, however, is not the case. People want to be there for you and give you the support ad comfort that you need, but may not know how to approach it. Be willing to talk and open up so that others may be there for you.

• Seek out a support group. Support groups are a fantastic source of encouragement and a safe place for you to express your emotions, talk about what you are going through, and get advice from others who are going through the same thing, or have gone through it.

• Seek out a community. Simply acknowledging that there are others who are dealing with the same journey as you takes away the feeling that you are alone, and gives you a sense of strength. Seek out the community of your parent’s form of cancer in your area and get involved so that you can get support and offer it as well

Whether your aging parent is living with cancer or struggling with some other health problem or needs, if you do not feel that your caregiver efforts are giving them all that they need, now may be the ideal time for you to consider elder care for them. An elder care provider can fill these care gaps in the way that is right for them so that your parent is able to manage their personal needs, challenges, and limitations while pursuing a lifestyle that is active, engaged, fulfilling, and independent throughout their later years.

When it comes to helping an elder who is going through a journey with cancer, this care provider can be invaluable. Their companionship and emotional support can help your parent deal with the mental and emotional issues surrounding cancer and help them to maintain a lifestyle that is meaningful and enjoyable during this chapter. They can also provide personalized reminders to ensure that your parent remains compliant with their medications, treatments, and other guidelines from their doctor so that they can maintain the best health possible.


If you or an aging loved one are considering Elder Care Services in Rancho Palos Verdes CA, please contact the caring staff at 1Heart Caregiver Services today.

Belina C. Nernberg
Belina C. Nernberg
Belina Calderon-Nernberg is the CEO and founder of a group of successful companies – 1Heart Caregiver Services, LA Jobs Employment Agency Inc. and Summit Medical Billing Solutions, Inc. As the CEO of 1Heart Caregiver Services, one of the fastest growing in-home care service companies in California, Belina has been responsible for the company’s increased productivity and consistent profitability for more than 12 years. Belina provided the vision, leadership, and direction that the company needed to achieve its short-term and long-term goals. As her greatest accomplishment, the company is now equipped with the expertise to expand its business operations to different States in the U.S. Belina brings with her a corporate experience of 23 years, with 13 solid years of experience as CEO of an employment agency and a senior care service company in Southern California. Belina’s principle-centered leadership and strength in her ability to combine corporate talents pave the way for the company to achieve greater heights. Belina has a Bachelor’s degree in Economics from the University of St. La Salle, Philippines. In 2013, she was honored with the Los Angeles IMAGE AWARDS – an award given to emerging leaders in business, community service, arts and entertainment. In June 2014, she was also awarded the title of Ambassador of Goodwill by the HiFi (Historic Filipinotown) Neighborhood Council. This title is bestowed to carefully selected Filipino-Americans who are persons of integrity who have the ability “to promote, reach out, influence and mobilize public interest and support of the ideals, values, principles and programs of the Historic Filipinotown.” In December 2015, she was also the recipient of the TOPLA (The Outstanding Pilipinos in Los Angeles) Award for Leadership Excellence in Human Resources. 1Heart Caregiver Services is a certified member of CAHSAH and has been featured in Asian newspapers and other media publications all over the United States like Yahoo! News, Google, TV, radio and newspaper online due to its various accomplishments, corporate programs, and contribution to the senior care industry. Belina’s vision remains solid and strategic as the company moves forward in its goal of making a positive difference in the home care industry.

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