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Is Your Elderly Loved One Fighting with You about Everything?

You think you’re having a normal day with your elderly loved one, but then you realize that no matter what you’ve said, she’s had something unpleasant to say in return. Having those types of unfriendly conversations and even fights with your elderly loved one isn’t fun and doesn’t provide a conducive environment for caregiving.

Elderly Care Pasadena CA - Is Your Elderly Loved One Fighting with You about Everything?

Elderly Care Pasadena CA – Is Your Elderly Loved One Fighting with You about Everything?

Pain Can Make Your Elderly Loved One React with Anger

Pain, in general, can make anyone cranky or angry. Your elderly loved one might experience pain for a variety of different reasons. It might be chronic pain from an old injury or your loved one might experience pain from newer issues, such as osteoarthritis. Regardless of the cause of the pain, it can cause your loved one to lash out at the people that she loves.

Look at Medication Interactions

Medications can interact with each other and magnify the side effects that your loved one might experience. If she’s taking quite a few different medications, it helps to talk with her doctor about how those medications might affect her personality. Your loved one’s doctor might opt to change the medications or the dosages to help her to have a better experience with them.

Look at Potential Health Issues

Some health issues can cause your loved one’s personality to change or can lead to your loved one being angrier than she should be in a given situation. Bladder infections, for example, can have markedly different symptoms in an elderly loved one than in a younger person. Other health problems, such as Alzheimer’s disease, can have some similar effects on your loved one.

You Might Both Need a Break

One really simple explanation for your loved one suddenly fighting more with you is that you both need to take a break from the situation. Caregiving is incredibly demanding and it can mean that you’re spending almost every waking minute with your elderly loved one. Think back to the last time you took even a couple of hours away. If it’s been so long that you can’t remember it clearly, it’s time to book some elderly care providers and step away for a bit.

When you find yourself in this situation, take some deep breaths and remember not to take the anger personally.

If you or an aging loved one are considering Elderly Care Services in Pasadena CA, please contact the caring staff at 1Heart Caregiver Services today.

Belina C. Nernberg
Belina C. Nernberg
Belina Calderon-Nernberg is the CEO and founder of 1Heart Caregiver Services. Recently offering 1Heart franchise business opportunities to the public, Belina provided the vision, leadership, and direction that the company needed to achieve its goal of making a positive difference in the homecare industry. As her greatest accomplishment, the company is now equipped with the expertise to expand its business operations to different States in the U.S. Belina brings with her a corporate experience of 25 years, with 15 solid years of experience as CEO of an employment agency and a senior care service company in Southern California. Belina has a Bachelor’s degree in Economics from the University of St. La Salle, Philippines. She has been the recipient of several awards given to emerging leaders in business, community service, arts, and entertainment. She has also been honored as an Ambassador of Goodwill by the HiFi (Historic Filipinotown) Neighborhood Council. This title is bestowed to carefully selected Filipino-Americans who are persons of integrity who have the ability “to promote, reach out, influence and mobilize public interest and support of the ideals, values, principles, and programs of the Historic Filipinotown.

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